Mixed Girl Problems: We're Moving Down South


While I have lived in a few places around the world thus far, moving to South Carolina was the biggest culture shock I have had in my life. 


Please remember, these are my experiences that I would not forget due to how they made me feel. To remember my attendance at school in South Carolina in my adolescent years, it was a time that impacted me a lot because of the great differences I noticed in the education system. 

In fact, it was my first time time entering a school with metal detectors and police officers at the doors, students required to wear identification cards on lanyards, and a few pregnant teens roaming the school. 

I was in shock to see that at the age of 13 there were some girls already pregnant... Weren't we still saying that boys had cooties?


As I navigated my first week at school in South Carolina, I made a new friend in band class! We both played the flute and she seemed nice since she tried to help me get situated. When lunch came around, I saw her in the cafeteria and decided to sit with her!

When I sat down, I noticed that everyone at the table was staring at me.  I looked around and saw that all of the students at the table were white. They all gave me a look that I soon realized meant, "why are you sitting here with us? Shouldn't you be over there with them?" Then looking about the lunchroom, 

I realized at that moment the cafeteria was divided with white students to one side and black students to another. 


Very different compared to who I used to sit with at lunch!


After that day, the girl who I thought wanted to be friends with me from my band class acted strange towards me and I just sat outside or in the bathroom at lunchtime. I started to really hate school.

In actuality, this was something I noticed from that day forward until high school and I even tried to speak about it to others but no one wanted to hear me. Everyone seemed complacent about it and did not really care do anything about it. I tried again to bring it to students attention for our high school graduation speech, however, I got rejected since I knew speaking about issues of race seem negative and probably do not want to hear on a happy day... 

But when would we bring it to each others attention so we can change it? Weren't we going to be the next generation of leaders in the world?


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